Dishing Out What You Are Served...

In a world filled with approximately 7 billion people, different races, ethnicity, behavioural patterns and the like, it's somewhat normal to expect the unexpected in

the course of life and growth. I don't know what your story is, every person has got one. You may have been born with a gold or silver spoon and had it easy, you may have been born with a wooden spoon or a clay spoon and had to struggle, maybe still in the struggle. One thing is common with all the spoons though, they have all at some point experienced a challenge, at different levels or degrees. They say, you have to put your feet in a person's shoes, to know exactly how they feel. You may claim to have an idea, but you can only know as much, when it's happening to you.
Most people's lives are shaped by their experiences, both good and bad, some, by the experiences of others. However, in the case of people who have had more negative occurrences than good, it tends to affect their general outlook to life. Some of the behavioural patterns you witness are actually stemmed from previous incidents, while some percentage are genetic.

An eye for an eye they say, leaves everyone blind. As much as it may be  extremely difficult to get over feelings of hurt, disappointment, betrayal and the like, you feel some 'inner peace' as soon as you do.
The best you should do is to learn from experiences by being tactful and creating a metamorphosis of a better you. Giving in, involves looking for other people to lash out the recesses of your bitter encounters on. I just wonder if you will feel better by becoming that which you 'supposedly' dislike. Let's try to make sure the dishes we serve aren't always what we are served, except they are deliciously exquisite dishes,lol.